So cold sore girl, shes my best friends sister who I've known for over 6 years. Her and I had a thing long ago, but I fucked up and shes wanted to stay friends, though I get the odd pass at me (at the worst fucking timings, aka the fucking cold sore). Her bro and I were to party tonight with a couple of friends, but then shes plans a dinner for her bro, her, a friend and I, just before we were planning on partying. I have only seen this girl 3 times since we went a good year without talking.
First her friend (mutual friend) heard about the partying and wondered on whether it would conflict with the dinner (first time me hearing about the dinner). I said it didn't matter, I wasn't going to go to the dinner. Then her brother brings up the dinner making sure I was going. Again I said no I wasn't. He continued to bug me about it, and yesterday she finally asked me if I am going to her little dinner thing. Again, I said no. Then her brother informs her that him and I'll be there for the dinner.
The mutal friend begins to question why I wasn't going, I told her I just didnt want to go. Then the brother goes on and on that I should go. Finally 2 hours before the dinner is to begin, I get a call from the brother, asking again, if I was planning on showing up. Again, I expressed that fact I have no interest in coming. He got all angry and gave the phone off to his sister, who began to tell me how I am just seeking attention by refusing to come to the dinner, where I just replied I have no interest what so ever in going.
Then after the call, the brother informs me now he has no way to get to my place, since neither his sister or her friend are willing to drive him, and he is willing to take a cab or bus, so the partying is cancelled...
Now I did use the excuse I had to clean up my pad before we partied here. But still WTF! The dude cancelled on me... because from day 1 I said I wouldn't be attending this fucking dinner she wanted to have...
The real reasoning why I rather not go is for 1, its been almost 2 years since the 4 of us hung out together, and it stopped because the thing I had with her, and I kinda just cut all ties. 2, About a week ago her and I got into a fight because I really didn't want things to go back the way they were, because it consisted on her mind fucking me all the fucking time, and pulling my strings. She didn't want to have the talk about it that night, and walked off, agreeing that we would continue this argument Friday (as in yesterday) and an hour before her and I are suppose to meet, she cancels saying something "came up". Mainly because she is avoiding talking about it. So I figured she wants to be a fucking child about it, let her, I'm just not gunna see her until shes ready to talk (or until the cold sore is gone )
I don't know guys, I know if I cut ties with her again, I'll have more time for StarCraft 2 and casting and all that. PS justs fucking gorgeous