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[Girl Blog] So, there's this girl...
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Branch.AUT
Austria853 Posts
dont let your kids drink and post! | ||
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lethyl
United States207 Posts
On May 27 2011 10:58 eezyBash wrote: so when i got into 3rd grade (which is age 12-13) lol User was warned for this post | ||
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emperorchampion
Canada9496 Posts
Yep, sobriety test failed. It's difficult, but it's shit you just have to come to terms with. Either talk to her about how you feel, or just forget about it. If you can't do either-- get the hell out if it's bothering you too much. edit: On closer reading, just forget about it. Shit ain't going no where. | ||
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GhostKorean
United States2330 Posts
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Lemonwalrus
United States5465 Posts
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shinosai
United States1577 Posts
I've always taken pride in my intellect and intelligence but this guy she's with was always better than me in school and even managed to get 100% on the end exam in math with the hardest teacher our school had to offer. HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO COMPETE WITH THAT?!? Yea, I'm pretty sure this is the first things girls look at when choosing a guy. If they got a 100% on the end exam in math. You clearly don't have a chance with this girl; you're just not smart enough. Attraction, it's a choice. Before I decide that I'm attracted to a girl, I look into her various categories such as test scores, IQ results, BMI, and logical thinking capacity. That way I can make an accurate decision on whether or not I'm attracted to her. I'm sure she thinks exactly the same way when looking for guys! | ||
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Z3kk
4099 Posts
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munchmunch
Canada789 Posts
On May 27 2011 10:58 eezyBash wrote: Ever since I met her I just knew she was the one, she or noone else.Every girl i've been with since then, was just a mere substitute for her. And it really pains me to say this, and if I wasn't really drunk right now I'd never post this, but I think I'm at a loss here. I really don't know what to do anymore. There's your problem right there. In the words of Dan Savage, there is no "the one", there are ones. | ||
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PUPATREE
340 Posts
he doesn't care for her as much as you do, and he probably isn't as good to her as you would be. have some confidence in yourself and move forward. you can avoid her, delude yourself into thinking that it'll never work out and that you're worthless, and regret it while longing for her for years to come if you really want to though, i guess. | ||
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udgnim
United States8024 Posts
grow some balls. be confident. stop fearing rejection/embarrassment. also, you are probably infatuated with the girl. it's not healthy. reciprocal infatuation is good. one-sided infatuation is fucking bad. you're going to put her on a pedestal if you haven't already. | ||
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paper
13196 Posts
2. It's not a matter of you vs him. It's about your lack of self-confidence and how you choose to deal with the situation by whining over the internet. Is there any way to "get" her in your current state? Probably not (lol). So instead of being dramatic, why not focus on yourself mentally, physically, financially, whatever, and get to a level where she's the one chasing you because you're such a "high value" person. And the irony will be that once you're in that position, you'll laugh at how she was never the perfect person you imagined her to be. | ||
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tobi9999
United States1966 Posts
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paper
13196 Posts
There is no beneficial outcome whatsoever from confessing in his position! The best course of action is to stop communicating with her. If she truly is the one (which I highly doubt), a long period without any contact will help neutralize her view of him during which he can better himself (in ways I mentioned above) and improve his chances of establishing any sort of emotional connection with her when he meets her again for the "first" time. | ||
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nitdkim
1264 Posts
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Loser777
1931 Posts
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Malgrif
Canada1095 Posts
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AgentV
United States159 Posts
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Z3kk
4099 Posts
On May 27 2011 12:18 nitdkim wrote: are you like a 1st year student in highschool or something? That might explain the massive insobriety :o (I kid ;D) I really, really like what paper has to say. Listen to him. | ||
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Zim23
United States1681 Posts
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bjornkavist
Canada1235 Posts
She now has a boyfriend whos about 2 or 3 years older than me, and just smarter, more handsome and a better guy than me. Don't think like this man, you gotta know your better. You gotta be confident, how's someone gonna love you, if you don't love yourself. Your better than her boyfriend and you know it. And when their through, you just gotta tell her how you feel or else it's just gonna haunt you for a long time man. | ||
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oneofthem
Cayman Islands24199 Posts
and yes i know these analogies make no sense except geometrically, including this one. i don't care. | ||
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SCC-Faust
United States3736 Posts
I never laughed so hard at a blog before until I realized I'm an ignorant American. | ||
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Imbu
United States903 Posts
Not moving on this situation can only hurt you, whatever chance you had passed by when she met this new person. It sucks, but it's not the end. Just don't forget the next time! | ||
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roronoe
Canada1527 Posts
On May 27 2011 12:44 Zim23 wrote: Fight the dude. That's how you'll win her heart. Never fails. There's a reason animals/cavemen do it that way, it's because it works. lmao. this is the best response. do it. | ||
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Headlines
United States482 Posts
You're misguided, my friend. In fact, I don't even think you love her, your entire post just screams lust. You don't sound too happy that she has such an amazing boyfriend. You sound bitter and hateful because she has a boyfriend who is so much better than you. That's not called love. If you truly loved her, which I highly doubt you do, than you'd be happy for her. Why? Because she's happy. When you deeply love someone, you don't place your own "needs" in front of others. Your partner's emotional needs always come first, and if she's content with her relationship, so should you be content. Going down the path you're currently on is such a coward's way, because it's so much easier to succumb to self-loathing and jealousy than it is to realize the truth - to be happy for her knowing she's in a very good relationship with an awesome guy. To be honest, when I was in my late teens, I felt the same way for my high school crush, even after she moved across two states to enroll at her university. I hadn’t realized then just how much unnecessary stress I was putting on myself. It’s all emotions, powerful emotions, but emotions nonetheless. You need to know that you’re not depressed or jealous or whatever, you’re just feeling them. Emotions can be overcome, but if you keep saying, “I am…” instead of “I’m feeling…” you start to think your emotions are who you are, not how you feel. Don’t. [edit] Where's larjarse or kennigit at?  | ||
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ToDieFoR
United States52 Posts
That's everything. | ||
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JMave
Singapore1806 Posts
I guess for the most part, she was just a perfect image of a person that you imagined her to be. Maybe in reality, things aren't that good as they seem to be. | ||
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SacredSoul
United States76 Posts
On May 27 2011 11:35 udgnim wrote: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VAGiQ3AWKqI grow some balls. be confident. stop fearing rejection/embarrassment. also, you are probably infatuated with the girl. it's not healthy. reciprocal infatuation is good. one-sided infatuation is fucking bad. you're going to put her on a pedestal if you haven't already. Watch this... It WILL make you smile! | ||
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Xsoild
United States121 Posts
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Zapdos_Smithh
Canada2620 Posts
Lol indeed. My sister is in grade 3....she is 8 years old... | ||
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Darclite
United States1021 Posts
I had a friend who I was interested in for a long time, had the same problems, etc. And I just started at some point to think rationally and realize that she was in no way perfect (in fact, she wasn't all that good of a person at all) and stopped talking to her. And now I don't really care. Haven't spoken to her in about a year or so I think. Feels good. There's no reason to invest so much into anyone unless you know there's a future. The grade/age thing was pretty funny though lol. | ||
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DisaFear
Australia4074 Posts
On May 27 2011 13:35 Headlines wrote: your entire post just screams lust Not too sure about that, if he has been wondering about her for 8 years. | ||
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Trufflez
Australia174 Posts
As long as I get to see her and be friends obviously. Let's face it man. Love is a bitch. There's not a lot you can do about that. You can't make somebody love you, but you can try and be as happy as possible about the whole thing. You love her because she's amazing and you can't help but be happy when you're around her. And you want to be around her. (I'm pulling this out of my feelings). She makes you happy, remember that. Love is there because she makes you happy. So be happy. | ||
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Demonace34
United States2493 Posts
What you should do now? Either embrace the friendship only and get used to feeling like shit around her or stop talking to her and move on. | ||
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Buuuu
Poland18 Posts
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ian24
United Kingdom1 Post
If you like that girl so much then the one thing you can do now is to get into better job than your rival and if possible create some differences between that girl and that guy. As they say everything is fair in love and war. All the best!! | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
On May 27 2011 17:23 Buuuu wrote: ok since it's posted on a Starcraft site it's going to be an starcraftish advice: when you're in a game where you're on one base and your opponent has fast expanded and is already mining from it. You can do two things macro up and wish for the best or rush/all-in. So what i want to say you need to get some courage and go for it. Noone can really say anything else, you won't get her just but sitting and waiting. GL Well the situation depends on what's going on. He's playing against someone better than himself, and his opponent has had the extra base for a while. If he has enough forces to get his allin to succeed then he should definitely try to all-in now. Otherwise if the girl likes her current boyfriend a lot, then telling his current feelings will just lead in him getting behind. Maybe he should improve his position by getting one of his own bases and forget about the girl with the boyfriend. + Show Spoiler + Don't forget to get zergling speed! | ||
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DerNebel
Denmark648 Posts
On May 28 2011 00:42 obesechicken13 wrote: Well the situation depends on what's going on. He's playing against someone better than himself, and his opponent has had the extra base for a while. If he has enough forces to get his allin to succeed then he should definitely try to all-in now. Otherwise if the girl likes her current boyfriend a lot, then telling his current feelings will just lead in him getting behind. Maybe he should improve his position by getting one of his own bases and forget about the girl with the boyfriend. + Show Spoiler + Don't forget to get zergling speed! Hatch immediately and zergling/roach all-in imoimo Ninja EDIT: You are a teenager. All I ask is that you try to go for it, but if it doesn't work out, you need another obsession. Yes, im gonna put it that way. Walk on, be strong and never let the past get to you this way. You're just dropping off a cliff, but never really reaching the sea, not a nice feeling, not at all. | ||
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leBIGcrab
France313 Posts
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Lennon
United Kingdom2275 Posts
On May 28 2011 03:08 leBIGcrab wrote: grow some balls or give up : / | ||
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obesechicken13
United States10467 Posts
Oh god the asian guy got so many rejections ;_; edit: NOOOOHH the boy blog and girl blog were right next to each other in the blogs list and I bumped this one double ;_; | ||
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twelveapm
United States46 Posts
Along the way, you should organically pick up the confidence you need. That's important--it's not even that girls find confidence really attractive as much as they expect it. Lack of confidence is just...exasperating. (Okay I can't generalize to all girls--maybe I should say me, as a girl.) And definitely cut off communications for the foreseeable future, unless she reaches out to you. (Though it doesn't sound like something she's likely to do.) If you do bump into her, it'll make a bigger impression when it's a sudden change, not a gradual one. | ||
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Thrill
2599 Posts
You don't know that this other guy is perfect. Maybe you'll bump into her in ten years and catch up. She'll see you've grown, that you've accomplished a lot and that you're happy. If she's still not interested, who cares? Future you probably deserves much better than future her. The important thing is not to get stuck: eels don't spend their entire lives in the Sargasso Sea, you have to swim out into the world. | ||
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